Friday, October 2, 2009

Love at 'First Sight"? :S

As we spoke about love at frist sight in class. My stand on "Love at First Sight" is a definate NO it does not happen.

Alright yes some people do go on first dates and they seem to like the person they meet there. But have anyone ever wondered, how MUCH of a person can you know from a 2-3 hours meeting at a coffee shop?Most likely 5% of the individual?YES!

What I feel those who say they liked the person from love at first sight I would say is they were attracted to the partners appearance at FIRST SIGHT! It's not a bad thing. But LOVE doesnt just pop out of the blues like that! It takes years of getting to know the person only then LOVE comes.

Another matter that have disturbed me alot of times were the fact that when one is in a relationship, why do they use those 3 wonderful words very EASILY? The " I Love You " ?

I've seen many people including the relationships I myself have had. Those words I Love You seems to be misused very often. By a week of meeting the person, you have fallen in LOVE?

My opinion is, it takes many months and YEARS to actually know the person's personality fully!Not weeks and definately not at FIRST SIGHT! =)

However, I would never argue with those who say yes they have loved their partners at first sight. It's their individual perception on it. BUT if they say they LOVE the person within few days of the relationship,NEVER!

Amrit Kaur

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