Sunday, October 11, 2009

Interpersonal "love" relationships

I have had many different relationship with different guys in my life. Some were just friends, some made a big impact in my life and some were just the hi bye friends. Ill talk about the ones who made an impact in my life. I wouldnt call them "friends" because I did not take them that way. The "so called" LOVE relationships is what I mean.

Eros love? I have never experienced having that kind of guy in my life.

Ludic love? Oh YEAH!! Not one but 2 !! They both never actually wanted me NOW(as in 2 years back) I know! I mean it's not like I became less interesting or some sort. But the fact was that the relationship was going on too LONG and they needed more to explore on so they cheated me. And FORTUNATELY I found out=) Today i think back of the past and Im very very thankful they actually did that to me. Because who would think whats right and wrong? Who is the right and wrong person in your life to walk down the journey together at the age of 18??!!! Those would all be puppy love! Some relationships do last I agree but that is like 10% out of the rest?

Storge love? Yeah:) Before me and my male best friend actually became real close, we were ALMOST in the stage of getting together till we sat and spoke and realised between us two nothing CAN actually happen. He feels comfortable talking to me and telling me his problems. So do I. But the attraction in seeing him as a life partner is just not there. Our bond as best friends can just NOT change. NEVER.

Pragma lover? =)=) The current relationship I am in now I would say. Everthing is good on the basis of family and background. I wouldnt say it is entirely pragma. But some combination of manic lover on his side does exist. No jealousy but at times when I speak to much to one party, he would be ABIT upset. So that would mean manic right?!( Who cares! atleast he cares that means!=) )

Agapic lover? hahaha...NAHHH.. me trying to be like Mahathma Ghandhi or even Mother Teressa..nope!


Amrit Kaur

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