Conflict is the ONE thing that happens in everyones life. Even if you don't like it, you have to bear with it because you have no control over it. Maybe YOU might have the control not to create a conflict in any situation but the other person or situation might have no control over it.
I HATE conflicts! Especially when it's a relational conflict. Despite me HATING it, i think it happens MORE than I can ever imagine. Maybe that's why!
Relational conflict starts small. It's almost like buring your old newspapers! It's starts small and when you disturb it more n more, the fire just keeps increasing and before you know it, your papers have became ashes now!
Im speaking about the parents-child conflict. Although it IS true when they say, we are only saying it for your own good or it's because we love and care about you, I honestly just don't get it! I mean ok to a certain extend they control us. But until WHEN? Morover it's not like we go against them by smoking or drinking and parting late nights everyday or even taking drugs! When we do none of that, arn't we suppose to be the good obedient kids whom you can trust?!
Yes I AGREE they care about us! and yes I agree, if anything were to happen, family are the ONLY people you can fall back upon. BUT, all we are asking is just a little amount of freedom arn't we? Im sure there are many out there who goes through this parental controlling situation. When the situation goes out of hand and uncontrollable for the kids, temper starts to rise and conflict happens.
Why can't it just be a win-win situation where I have my freedom but I use it wisely. Isn't that a good win-win?! Why does it always have to be a LOOSE-WIN???!!!! If your under 20 years and your parents control you, its reasonable. Your still a kid! FINE! BUT what if your 21 and above! WORST if your 25 and you have to be back home before dinner at 8.30pm? I mean like, where is the logic to THAT?!!
Because of all this minor stuff, conflicts happen! And have any of us ever wondered WHY do people commit suicide? When all these minor problems, not only relational but even other minor stuff that they have no control on, gets worst day by day, year after year, these people go under a severe depression and then it take them only one minute to commit suicide. Taking your life away is not something easy to do. Try cutting your wrist when your sad! You won't be able to do it. It's takes major problems in life for someone to have the courage to do that. And these major problems, starts with the minor ones.
Stop creating problems for each and other! It's the one and only thing you could do! Be nice! =)
Amrit Kaur
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