Let me clarify the title of the post.
Why do I support disconfirmation?
There are reasons for me to support my own point of view. Firstly, I knew pretty well about my own communication style. I am an aggressive communicator. I am brutally honest and if you were to tell me things that I strongly disagree or things that provoked me, I will definitely fire you back with mean words.In this context, I did not mean by firing vulgar words straight on your face. I would simply get things straight, and I don't care if my words would kill or not as long as I get you straight to the point and that's it. So, I guess it's better to disconfirm rather than creating havocs.
Secondly, if someone disclose their problems to me, I would loved to make decision for him/her. I don't really like to be in a situation where it required me to watch my friends got stuck in between a yes-no event. That situation really annoyed me ALOT. What will I do? Of course I would advise my friends and strongly influence them to take actions with logical reasoning and not solely based on personal opinions nor assumptions which is not credible at all.
Thirdly, it is common for me to participate in a win-lose situations for most of the time. I am willing to debate with any of my friends just to prove that I am in the winning side. In this area, I did not particularly be too forceful towards my friends because it's simply hurtful. I would use nice words to make them realized that what I'm saying is facts and I have evidences to prove that I am at the right party.
The most important thing is, even thought I am stuck in a "debate" or better known as an argument,with a friend of mine, I will ALWAYS stick to the truth despite knowing that the truth is always ugly and mean. Come to think about it, who would love to make things worst (like adding spices into the story) when it comes to an argument and when everything is as clear as crystal, you're so doomed ? It's not wrong admiting that I am aggressive at communications when this is the way I am.
Yours Truly,
Yin Jun
Yin Jun
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