Self-Esteem

As we all know self concept is basically about what we think and feel about ourselves. Self-esteem is about the same but in a deeper context.

One's self-esteem could be a good one or even a bad one ofcourse.

A good one: When your self-esteem is good, you tend to be able to respect yourself and ofcourse the people around you which is a good thing. High self-esteem can also mend relationships that are hanging.

HOWEVER !!!! With low power of control on yourselves, it could be battered within seconds and BAMMM!!!! your self-esteem now becomes LOW SELF-ESTEEM !!!

A bad one: It can cause you to fall into depression, you wouldn't be handling critism from the outer world very easily, every little comment even like "hey! you look tired today, didn't you sleep well" would make you feel as if the whole world around you is watching you and at that point it's BAD BAD BAD for you !!!!

I've gotten in a minor drop of my self-esteem a year ago where I had stopped talking like how I always do to the people around me(not for long, maybe about 2 months). That was when i read the book, The Secret! GREAT book!! I realised that what is happening around us is only because we think about it too much!

When we think positive, the universe responds positively towards us and vice versa.

Therefore my point on self-esteem here is that, when we tend to have problems in our lives, just take a moment and think CALMLY. Do not let your self-esteem get battered as that's a very bad thing! It's like if u hate 'vegetables', LOW self-esteem is VEGETABLES!! Stay away from it. Everything that happens around us is NOT fate. YOU write your own future. YOU lead your own future. NOONE does that for YOU=)=)

Yours Truly,
Amrit=)