Monday, September 28, 2009

listen or hear? hmmm..

Do you listen more or hear more often?... Well.. For me. I kind of listen and later doze off into my own wonderland. Is it good? i bet not.

When my friends start coming up to me and they needed my help, the first thing i ever do is to listen to their 'complaints'. Is it that hard to just listen to them and emphatize them or maybe just sympatize them? Gosh.. it's a tough one for me... i admit i may not be a good listener but I'm still trying my best to improve myself. Maybe i should change my habits or maybe i should just tell my friends that they actually should find some other people to talk to better than me. Sigh..

Since I'm in human communication class, i guess i should just learn to be a good listener by following these simple steps like how Mr. Murali taught me by attending to what me speaker is speaking, then understand it, remember it, evaluating it then finally answer it. Isn't it easy? Hopefully!! Cheers!!



Yours sincerely,

Chan Kah Mun

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