Wednesday, September 23, 2009

Different ways of communicating

Ask yourself this : Do you communicate to others the way YOU would want others to communicate back to you?

The way we communicate may seem fine to one person but to another it may seem rude and blunt which they might not like. It is impossible to satisfy the preference of every individual. But there is a thing where we talk with respect.

Between me and "him". People sometimes ask, "You two are so ALIKE. The way we talk, we argue, call each other names(not drastic heart breaking names!), and even bully one another. Despite it being in public or private. But we arn't able to talk this way to everyone.

I was at a wedding dinner last friday and there both OUR familes came. So we thought alright good chance for them to meet. As we were talking with other friends, as usual with the bullying, laughing our lungs out, and arguing, HIS mom came to our table where we were sitting, to meet ME. I was in a shocked state but my instant reaction was to great her in the MOST polite manner n to speak to her in the MOST lovable tone.
The rest of our friends who were at the table started laughing seeing my sudden behaviour change =)

My point here is that, our way of communication differs towards the different kind of people we are speaking to.

At the end of that day, his mom liked me=)

Amrit Kaur~!!

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